Health & Fitness
All I Really Know I Learned From My Mom
Today is Mother's Day, and the day when we honor all of the mothers, grandmothers, aunts, godmothers, and mother-like figures in our lives. A day to say THANK YOU. (And cook and host if you are an Italian mother.)
Growing up Italian, meant every Mother's Day, my mom would cook and clean and have my grandparent's over. Always. Why go out when you have a refrigerator full of food? And since it was a Sunday, sauce was on the stove since early morning.
My mother's influence over me and my sisters was enormous. I don't even think she realizes it. I often think I feel it the most as the oldest daughter. And as I began bringing out the platters and setting the dining room table early this morning in preparation for Mother's Day brunch, I am reminded of all she has taught me.
These are the things I learned about being a mother. An Italian mother…
1. Love fiercely and unconditionally.
2. Family is everything.
3. Work hard for what want. There is no easy way around that. Sometimes sacrifices must be made.
4. Food is the universal sign for love. Feed everyone who walks in front your door. Do not ask. Just do.
5. Start your sauce early and be patient. Delicious sauce simmers all day.
6. Arguing and yelling is a part of life. Forgive and move on.
7. Teach children how to clean as soon as they can walk.
8. Pastina is the cure for most ailments.
9. Plant a garden. Show your children how care for it. With a lot of love and a little luck it will grow.
10. Love your sister. She will be your best friend one day.
11. Do not complain about housework. Just do it.
12. You can do anything you set your mind to. Do not listen to those who say it’s impossible.
13. Never show up to a guest’s house empty handed.
14. Nutella is a basic food group.
15. Church and sauce on Sundays.
16. Iron. Look your best everyday. Even if you are just running to the grocery store.
17. If you give the milk away for free, he will never buy the cow.
18. Play with children. Really play. Sit on the grass. Read books. Go to the park. Play duck, duck goose. Teach them to use their imagination.
19. Always be prepared for guests. Have enough food, chairs and wine on hand at all times.
20. Be a mother not their best friend. Set limits and boundaries. Do not be afraid to discipline. Let them know they are a member of the family, and their actions affect others. Remind them that even if you are not with them, you can see them. (Throw in Jesus is watching too, every once in awhile.)
Happy Mother's Day, to my mom. Thank you for all you the sacrifices you made so my sisters and I could be the women and mothers we are today. I love you.