The father-son relationship can be complex and also be hard to relate to one another. Here are some key elements to creating and building a strong father-son relationship.
- Recognize a son is influenced by the father. Our sons learn about being a man primarily by watching and listening to their fathers. As a young man watches his father interact with his mother, he learns about respect (or disrespect), about how men and women interact and about how men should deal with conflict and differences. As he watches his dad interact with other men, he will learn how men talk, how to relate with one another and how they deal with masculine issues. Fathers who understand their influence on their son will help them think more in-depth about the relationship and take it more seriously.
- Develop common interests. Learn about each other. Take the time to talk about what you’re both interested in and then take part in the activities. If you’re son enjoys listening to Led Zeppelin, take the time to listen with him or go on Youtube to watch some videos. Also, ask your son to be a part of some of the hobbies you enjoy. You never know, he might like the things you do and can become a great bonding activity or more.
- Get a little wild. I think a lot of boys, especially teenage boys, like to be active and play rough. The little bit of wild behavior can become a bonding experience, but, remember to keep them safe. Some wrestling in the backyard can possibly translate into activities such as weight lifting, football, skateboarding or ice hockey.
- Do something meaningful together. Some dads and sons build a tree house or take a trip together. Whatever it is, organize a meaningful experience your son will
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